Hell, one might even go as far as to say I was a “popular” girl.But when I hit my late 20s, got married, and started having kids, the business of making friends morphed into an exhausting process that often times left me feeling pissed off, empty and alone.
On the other hand, most friends cannot accept us when we make a mistake. A good example was two years ago, I read a news, which reported a man was caught by the police because of the graft and corruption.
Especially, when we betray or do bad things for our friends. His friends was so surprised and disappointed in his action.
Therefore, we can talk everything we want with our friends.
The relatives can accept a person's mistake easier than friends.
However, the consequences of such isolation can be like a double-edged sword, desirable or detrimental.
Bacon points to philosophers like Epimenides the Candian, Numa the Roman, Empedocles the Sicilian, and Apollonius of Tyana, who postulated theories unique to their age and contemporaries. Even several spiritual men find great benefit and progress through prolonged abstention from public life.I thought it would be fun to share some my personal stories in a series here on Medium. If you’re a 30-something woman who has experienced your share of bad luck when it comes to making new friends, you might get a kick out of these stories.My goal is to add 1–2 stories every week…so be sure to follow me and follow the series so you know when a new story gets added.If someone asks me who is the most important person in my life, my answer will be my family members and friends because those two relationship have ever made me happy and taken care of me.In my mind, friendship involves recognition or familiarity with another's personality. Even though some people might think that the friendship and kinship are similar, I think there are some difference, selectivity, topics of conversation, understanding of mistaking We have opportunity to choose someone to be my friend; however, we cannot choose my family members. We can choose our friends who are loyal, cordial, friendly, or kind, who have a similar In contrast to kinship, we have unlimited topics with our friends.When we make a big mistake, our family members can forgive us, and give us a chance to atone for what we had done.Because we have blood relationship with our relatives, whatever we do bad things, they will accept and help us to make up those mistakes.Therefore, voluntary retreat from society can have positive consequences too.Bacon attempts to differentiate between kinship and general crowd.And I certainly did not realize that I would have my feelings hurt so much as an adult woman when it came to making friends Some of these memories make me cringe to think about, while others just make me chuckle at the absurdity of it all.Lately, I’ve been thinking about how my friendships (and approach to friendships) have evolved over the years.